My Day With My Boudoir By Pam

16 May

So, earrings I need to get some stud earrings for today! I quickly drive over to the big tesco, and grab myself a couple of stud earrings along with a new tunic and pair of casual shoes which i don’t really need! ( a couple of days later all the buttons will fall of that tunic and I will have to improvise how I wear mid- Beyonce concert!).

I sit down with a coffee in the cafe and contemplate how the day will go. A little over a month ago, I won a competition from Fuller figure Fuller Bust to have a make over boudoir shoot with My Boudoir. I don’t normally do competitions, but entered because I just loved what was being asked: write a love letter to yourself. I did and I was the lucky winner. Since then I was scouring Nicola’s website, internet and my brain was going into overload about my lucky prize.

Honestly, I was so excited, knowing what Georgina stands for and having seen Nicola’s and Sarah’s work, I knew I was in the hands of an arti-gicians. Half artists, half magicians! I knew I would be made to look fabulous, all I had to do was enjoy the day.

I turned up at Nicola’s with the biggest suitcase, full of sari’s, shoes, accessories, hair extensions and ideas of voluptuous nakedness!

I loved Nicola straight away, it’s like you’re immediately long lost friends and that’s saying something considering the first thing we did was lug my supersize suitcase, guitar and cupcakes up a rather steep hill, but the adrenaline was already pumping. Nicola welcomed me in at which point I met the other two most important people of the day, Sarah Elliott for MUAH and Normie for general cuteness and moral support!

Over a cup of coffee we just chatted, about me, the things I like, expectations of the day. I was asked at one point, what parts I liked least.. I said I had bra scars and rather dry elbows! For me, this was my chance to mark a milestone in my life, like my tattoos, everytime I view these pics they would take me back to this day, a couple of weeks before my wedding to the most awesome man, (sorry other men!) a time in my life when I am extremely happy being who I am, in a place surrounded by my friends and family who also accept me for me. This was my chance to have a true professionals do their thing and all I had to do was what they told me to.

I did specifically ask Nicola to get my love bumps into shot, for me, I love my body and its wibbly wobbliness, me love bumps have always been a part of me, have never hindered me and I did not want to hide them away.

As the day went on, and I went from one outfit to another to none, it literally got better and better, it was hard for me to pose as I had to have a neutral face but inside I was bursting with happiness and all I wanted to do was smile. My favourite shot of the day is one which actually I will not be sharing online, it’s my nuddy shot, it’s me with my curves, and lumps and bumps and it’s me.. i feel it captures my soul and everything about me and it’s mine. On a bad day I look at it and go “Woah” and even better so does my man! lol!

Thanks Nicola, Sarah and Georgina for making this happen. It’s extraordinary gift you’ve given to a fellow woman and I wish at some point if not every day of their lives, all women: skinny, fat, curvy, slender, round, pear, athletic whoever they are and wherever they be also feel this way, confident in themselves and empowering and supporting each other.

Mucho love, you sexy ladies xxx

satin romance





12 Responses to “My Day With My Boudoir By Pam”

  1. Alison May 16, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Fabulous photos and inspiring post. Hope your wedding goes well, and you have many happy years together πŸ™‚

  2. thelingerielesbian May 16, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Gorgeous! I love the way you used the sari– such a cool piece for a boudoir shoot.

  3. Lori Smith (@lipsticklori) May 16, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Wow! You look stunning! Such gorgeous photos πŸ™‚

  4. Zeenat May 17, 2013 at 12.53 #

    gorgeous! Gave me ideas for my photoshoot!

  5. shapeplusstyle May 17, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Wow – the pictures are amazing! It sounds like you had a fantastic day πŸ™‚

  6. Dionne May 17, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Wow. Amazing! You look so great.

  7. PoPpy @ Persistence Over Perfection May 17, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You look amazing, hank you so much for sharing these beautiful photos and this inspiring post. Enjoy your wedding, I hope you have a wonderful day πŸ™‚

  8. Plush Plum May 18, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I would love to do a boudoir shoot for my husband, but I’m worried about the photographer(s) being judgmental. I LOVE that you shared these, though – you look great! – a plus(h) size fashion blog
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  9. marijadebono May 20, 2013 at 12.53 #

    looking great! πŸ˜€

  10. allie May 21, 2013 at 12.53 #

    these girls ARE arti-gicians! Pam, you are stunning ❀

  11. Jan Wright May 21, 2013 at 12.53 #

    WOW ! Stunning πŸ˜‰

  12. Andi S May 23, 2013 at 12.53 #

    wow, fantastic pictures – you look stunning! I’d love to try this myself but as you say… it’s finding the confidence to do it. Thanks for sharing, it looks so fun!

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